I guess I once told you that writing is like sex; right? Well, that hypothesis remains. The only thing I wish to clarify here is that in writing, (unlike in real-life) you will not have any gender in this ‘sex experience’ of writing.
You can be a female and get fucked by your clients (especially those Indian clients). I’m writing this piece while still remembering “Manish”. Good grief! Manish paid me $5 to set an English exam with “listening, writing, reading, and speaking” section. Boy, I was fucked; I admit that.
You can be masculine, and fuck a bit (especially when you become fucked up). You can fuck yourself with your messes (think about what happens when you don’t submit a job within the deadlines), or you can both enjoy the experience (often the case).
In a sense, I’m just trying to tell you that here you have no “gender”; you choose the gender yourself or depending on your circumstance. When you’re on top, you are a man, when you’re down, you’re a lady. Aaand this is where most of you screw up stuff. You don’t know when to do it or when you should just pause, and be done (the Imenti way) or when to transfer fuckery down the food chain.
I’ve been reading some of your emails and DMs and most of you seem to be telling me a similar moral story: you never seem to have any sex partner (I guess you know what I mean by now, don’t you?). You just never seem to land on any job. Why? Look, I have an answer…
Go and study some “B.Sc. Whore-formatics with Makeups”. It’s a short degree course that can take a month. Learn how the best lady-player from your area-code manages to cheat on you, your friend, your landlord and your uncle who came visiting from shags (and at times even knowingly).
I know it’s a difficult assignment, but it might help you to learn how to advertise yourself and make yourself valuable. In so doing you stand some fighting chance to generate some income online. And I mean “some” because there are a lot of guys who lie to people about a flowing dollar ocean growing online only to meet with $1 per 1000-word article kind of jobs when they set out as newbies.
As someone who wears many hats, I sometimes pose as both a freelance writer and a client. Maybe that aspect makes me a little bit qualified to tell you where most writers fuck themselves up or just cease to please their prospective fuck-mates. Now, pause for a moment and think like a client; hard to do when all your life you’ve been a freelancer, right? But think about it, what would you want to be told by job applicants? How would you wish to be approached? If you get those two questions right, BINGO! You can skip the rest of the article. But if not, Ummh…
Well, I could do better with our analogy here. Imagine you’re interested in brown-skinned ladies (you, as a client, have specific types of writers you are interested in like Finance writers or Psychology writer). And you went out to a local “Koinange’s” place to find your prospective “yellow-yellow” (this is much like when you post a job in FB or Upwork/ Freelancer…). And you meet several ladies (those bids/application/cover letters). How and what criteria would you choose your mate?
Okay, here is the first thing you will notice if you have ever gone out for fun in those streets. First, every lady will try to grab your shirt (it often feels cool). And imagine that’s how I feel when I read 50 cover letters in Upwork. At this point, some ladies will be eliminated for not showing interest or using “cheap makeup”. And so it is that I do reject some applications because of poor grammar or punctuations. Some applications just don’t appeal. I mean, how can you be serious on my job if you can’t be serious enough to write a 100-word cover letter?
Next, make the first line stand out. The first sentence in your application does not matter a lot; it is often the only fighting chance you got. When you know there are several applicants who might beat you, just state it right upfront in the first sentence. E.g. if your client stated that “I want native writers …blah blab”, just tell him/her that which he/she wants to read. Write something like, “I am a native English writer with over 7 years of …” or, “I can deliver your batch of 10 articles in 48 hours. ..(then proceed to give him/her more details)” Don’t beat about the bush, just say it point-blank.
As guys, we hardly mention when the “thing” is tight (I’ve proven it scientifically), but folks, ladies will often gossip when the “stick” is “above average.” I guess you don’t get it, right? Samples and portfolio are critical. I know sometimes (if you are highly rated), nobody will care to request you for samples. However, in the beginning, samples are your only evidence of “great sex experience”. So, do attach them to your application if you can. But at times you may not… So, if you had a great intro, your prospective employer may request for them. If he/she does, don’t hesitate to send them. Are we together still?
I was almost forgetting my former mistress, “Njeri” (Oooh! I still miss that lady though) and her chest thumping. She served that “thing” cold and at night. When chatting with her, she could promise heaven, and then the “Kisii gods” could not be appeased by “minji-minji” game. I know of a few other ladies who I dropped like burning coals. Well, should I say that I am the problem? (Perhaps yes) But even if it’s my problem, it’s her problem too!
I’d say that the problem I had with some “sex partners”, is that they advertised more than they could offer. Just don’t lie; right? Say it as you know it. If a job has a 6-hour deadline and you can only finish it in 24 hours, be honest. If necessary decline it. Believe me; some clients love such characters and honesty. You’ll admit it, sex is more awesome when it isn’t pretty. If you are a newbie, don’t fear to say “No, thanks.” Just tell your clients that you are a newbie; most clients will value honesty and loyalty (I am one of them). And herein lies the secrets to stopping “hit-and-runs”
Look, I do post some jobs at times when I have an overflow. In the process, I get a chance to hire new writers (you can symbolically call them “sex partners”, but please, don’t tag my mama to this post) and I have noted something terribly wrong with how people price themselves or their services. Pricing doesn’t matter;
….except that it does! Folks, I have seen expensive writings delivered cheaply; and I have also seen cheap writings delivered expensively. The two types of writings are worlds apart. Expensive content delivered cheaply creates long-term relations. Such are the type of freelancers clients are willing to pay $150 per hour to learn from them. On the other hand, cheap writings delivered expensively cause constant “hit-and-run” relationships and poor profile ratings.
If you are currently offering expensive writings cheaply, you are safer because better days are ahead if you increase the way you rate yourself. On the other hand, if you have been delivering cheap writings expensively, you will be out of the market soon (unless you develop some escape strategy sooner than later). And how do you know when you offer expensive work cheaply? Well, once you notice your clients don’t want to end your contract or they end and re-open, there you go our cheap-priced gold!
Huh! Let me end it there, I didn’t intend to have it too long. Forgive me to taking too much of your time